I must go back to some research of mine I did on this issue and post it sometime today. Yes they are extremely dangerous. Yes, my kids know also of 4 spiders in particular to avoid. (bar the ones in my T room) I just think that people are a wea bit paranoid about most species. BUT.....I would definitely avoid getting tagged by Sicariidae sp.( Loxosceles)
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