There is no recipe. There is no care sheet. There is only intuition. Replicate what happens in nature and you are on your way. THINK how things work, seasons, rainfall, abundance of food, rise in temperatures, egg sac.
Then, flooding. Be careful to make this a general rule. M balfouri wants a few drops and they are in heaven, with P fasciata you must include a life raft... The best thing to do is look (study) the rainfall patterns of the region they originate from. Just a little search, a few lines to read and a few temperatures to memorize. Once you are close to this, you are close to counting slings.
Forget formulas, LISTEN to your spiders...
Most people are like clouds. The sun comes out when they f*ck off...