I don't think you'll find high density foam at builders. Trimmers are people that re-upholster furniture and car seats etc. You should also be able to get it from a mattress place... the ones that manufacture mattresses not a normal retailer.
Picture of what high density foam looks like:
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Most common seen application for high density foam:
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Hope this helps.