My two cents worth:
As a botanist I know from experience that plants at least exhibit the ability to adapt to different climatic (or whatever) conditions quite quickly, up to a point, through a phenomenon known as epigenetics.
This is a relatively new field but in a nutshell it describes certain, heritable changes in the phenotype of an organism through mechanisms other than change in the underlying DNA sequence.
An example I personally am familiar with is certain plants that are adapted to extreme aridity. If adults are collected they have to be treated in future with whatever climatic conditions they are adapted to, else they die. However, seedlings from these are often able to be planted in a normal garden setting, this is a one generation adaption event and, since selective breeding was not involved, must be epigenetic in nature. Unfortunately this does not hold true for all such plant species and the degree of adaptability can differ from species to species.
Perhaps this is similar to your observations regarding Avicularia sp. bred for the first time in SA?
An aside, just checked the Wikipedia article and the phenomenon is observable in animals too...
Traditional selective breeding will definitely play a role in iny animal in captivity, even if you are not selecting for anything consciously. Our T’s are spoilt in comparison to wild specimens if nothing else, sling mortality is waaaaaaaaay lower and any trait no longer needed for survival in an organism can disappear over time and generations without any input from our part, particularly with phenomena such as inbreeding and enough specimens for selection pressures to work on. I had a discussion with Swifty about this the other day in regards to his non-burrowing Curly.
I know my colleagues in entomology and plant protection (using biocontrol agents, usually insects) are always moaning about "lab adaption" in their stock, which happens very rapidly and often renders a culture useless for the purposes of, for instance, release.
With all this in mind, I can virtually guarantee that Ts in captivity are changing from their wild ancestors, and a lot faster than we can imagine.