haha, that is a question that depends on what type of spider it is.
I PERSONALLY feel when a sling get its full colouring, it becomes a juvies( excluding dwarfs)
a juvie is between 4-8cm, a sub adult is between 8 and 10cm( very fine line). BUT, an adult
i say that, a female tarantula only has to be 50% its fully grown size to breed. So if you have a
species that reaches a max of 20cm, you will be able to breed your female if she is 10
My Advice is mostly from my personal experience, but everyone is
allowed to give there own opinion.