Your first question sk27.
I don't think the female, or any female for that matter, would abandon her own viable egg sac and adopt other young. I think (with some certainty) that she would have continued guarding her sac while tolerating the foreign slings. Once her own has hatched, she would feed them all, irrespective of the genes. Just to give substance to my theory, this female was extremely reluctant to abandon her dud egg case. After I introduced the ten slings, she was still sitting on her own sac. It took about ten days for her to finally let it go. The introduction of new babies had no affect on her initial brooding pattern, but since she had no sac to take care of, she obviously feeds the adopted babies. I am also of the opinion that she would not reject individuals from another mother when combined with her own offspring. The only difference would probably be the size of the slings if they did not hatch in the same time frame. This could cause the stronger ones to dominate the distribution or availability of food, but I am 100% convinced they will be accepted by the female.
Your second question.
Should you introduce slings while the female is not in a breeding cycle, I am sure she would not eat them. She might not care for them as such, but I don't believe she will harm them. The presence of young in her burrow MIGHT delay the production of her own egg case, but this would be very difficult to prove.
The bottom line is that I can say with much certainty that M balfouri can cohabitate and has strong social bonds. Living communally in captivity suggests this already, so the behavior of these spiders is centered around this with a total lack of intolerance or aggression towards each other, young or adult.
If I can, I will add a few pictures soon.
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