You agree with me Firefly, yet you see MY points of view as "loathing" ?
Let me clarify. Respect among fellow humans is HARD earned, it is NOT a right, nor a gift. Frankly, the human race as it behaves at present does not DESERVE respect. It is not a point of view I sucked out of a bottle on some idle Tuesday, it is an opinion that has developed over MANY years, and MANY experiences and MANY disappointments in humanity. I might have high expectations of a species that constantly try to screw fellow beings, murder for a cell phone, rape babies, cut down forests, eat whatever moves and generally and purposefully refuse decency towards others, but I can not lower my expectations of others unfortunately. I refuse to lower my expectations or stoop to an unacceptable level of existence, just to be acknowledged or accepted. In short and simple terms, I do not trust ANYBODY anymore. Trust is as hard earned as respect, both can be lost in a second. The human race and what it stands for and how it behaves, I am ashamed of.
I am not negative, I am realistic. I am not a racist, I am a realist. I am not bitter, just bitterly disappointed.
Some may agree, I respect that. Some may differ completely, I respect that too. It is what society has made me, and maybe you too... Be careful when dealing with humans, until they have earned your trust and respect... Then, be strong enough and live by what you KNOW is right. You see, EVERY human living today was born with a deep understanding of wrong and right. We comfortably call it "that little voice"... The human race has developed the unique ability to IGNORE it, an even more unique ability to shift blame, and in line with this, REFUSE to take responsibility for their actions. This is contra-survival, yet we manage to to survive because we protect such weakness through ridiculous laws on HUMAN RIGHTS.
You talk about "blame" Ripper. That is one of the favorites. Example. I stand at an open grave. One of my best friends were scraped off the trees because he stepped on a landmine, a few paces from where I am. His mother cries on my shoulder sobbing, "it's Gods will"...? UTTER BULLSHIT... God did not want war, we did... Easy hey, shifting blame...
Edit: I do not for one second assume all readers of this believe in God, and whatever you wish to believe, NOBODY may EVER judge you in any way...
Most people are like clouds. The sun comes out when they f*ck off...