why dont you bring this T to the get together on the 15th and we can all give our opinion?

Thank you to everyone for all the reply's. Sorry it's taken me so long to say anything on the matter but I figured it was best to wait incase I say something I regret.

I'm not going to flame the guy I brought it from, he's done me in before and I should have known better but when I saw the Blondi for sale I just couldn't resist.

I was so angry I was just about ready to give away all my spiders and move on, simply because I've been saving that money to buy my husband a really cool birthday present (end on Jan) and when I saw the Blondi for sale I thought that it would be the perfect gift (even if it was an early gift), I ended up paying R2800 for a male.

The worst part was when I told my hubby that it was a male, the look on his face killed me even though he said it's okay I knew he was really upset. We don't breed, we tried a while ago but decided to leave it to the experts. We just prefer females obviously because they live so much longer.

Either way thanks for all the support, I feel like a total idiot but hopefully I have now learnt my lesson: Don't be so darn trusting and next time get hubby cheaper friggen spiders just in case.

Shame. It really is terrible being done in like that. What happened to the Unknown Spider? Has it been identified fully yet?

Well it seems to definetly be a MM T. Blondi, I'm going to take it to fangs when I get the chance so that he can help me out.

Sorry about what happened! Maybe there will be a light at the end!
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