I've had my Lasiodora parahybana slings/juvies for quite some time and as everyone said they are very aggressive eaters(will take three crickets @ a time). My one sling didn't eat for three weeks and molted last night, and I'm pretty sure it will eat in a week, when I feed it again.Just give yours time to settle in and if its due for a molt give it time and everything should be fine.
As for your question about the delay time after molting before you feed again, its to allow the new exoskeleton of your L. parahybana to harden. Crickets will try to feed on your newly molted T if they have the chance, and might injure your T during feeding if its newly molted.
If you still have doubts check this out...
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