From my point of few, surely the person buying the spider ask for photo's of the spiders, I'm talking about Machiel now, and all of you guys who bought from them.
When buying curtain spiders one needs to ask to see the mother and father and the mother on the egg sack basically a breeding report. Especially when you are buying something as rare as T. blondi's .
Also just in a general sense if you don't know the person who you are dealing with, try get the full story or history of the spider.
If you still don't trust the person photo ask them to write something on a piece of paper, like number ans ask for the photo to be taken next to the paper witht he number on. If people get pissed off and don't want to do that just walk away from the deal.
If you don't get photo's then you should have an Idea the person has imported them or something is not right, if it is a legit deal the breeder of the spiders will not have an issue supplying you with photo's, it is in he's benefit.
And surely Ann-marie and Machiel have emails or some kind of interaction on record on the conversation of their dealings?
So the truth can come out, who is the person who did the dodgy deal.
Cause it sounds to me like pass the buck as started, and Davey being the head boy of the deal, he is blaming them know.
Unless he wants to say where he got the spiders in the first place? (I doubt that will happen)
But one needs to have Davey's side of the story, he might have been screwed offer by the person he bought them from?
Also the seller needs to state if he offers refunds or computation in another manner.
But at the end of the day the seller has the right to decline refund or guaranteed arrival.
But I think it will be a waste of time to lay charges, just deal with it as a dodgy deal and sort out the people who have bought the spiders from you, make right where you can.
You got burned and you all have learnt a expensive and valuable lesson in dealing in the wonderful world of scam artists and being scammed
Unless you have proof of the conversation and of the product that was meant to be sold and it was the wrong product you are going to get thrown out of court and waste your time, as you need to prove it was a scam and he sold them to you knowing they were the wrong spiders.
At the end of the day, people did advise that it was not T. blondi's, and you went along with the deal and you bought the spiders regardless.
Sorry that it happened but it is not the first time or the last time, people are going to bump there heads in the hobby, you just need to be smart and if the deal sounds to good to be true, one must not rush in blindly, first do your home work and ask around to make sure.
I hope this gets sorted out!