Respect Onyx. It takes a man to admit you lost your cool and apologize. Big ups to that.
I once made a comment (guessing the T) and guessed it to be a B boehmei x albopilosum. Some members informed me that boehmei is hard to breed as is and will possibly be even harder to cross breed which is why my answer didnt make sense. My first response was to try defend my uneducated guess but I guess we as humans are quick to be defensive if we feel we are attacked (even if we are not attacked - just informed of something we didnt know).
The bottom line is that we are on this forum to learn and expand our minds when it comes to a hobby that has so many aspects (in terms of keeping and breeding and then in terms of the different genera and species (if that is the correct speeling)). We (new and old members) should attempt to answer questions raised even if we are not sure of the answer. Just say that you will be making a guess if you cannot base your answer on experience. The answer may be incorrect and another member will correct you. Do not be offended by it. This is how you learn more and if the question is asked again by a new member you will be able to give the correct answer.
New members should be encouraged to answer questions if they feel up to it. At the end of the day we cannot all wait (with all due respect to Scarab, Cascade, Duke, The animal etc) for the well known 'experts' to answer the questions. I am also sure they are getting tired of answering "why is my G rosea not eating" and the common questions.
We are all about growing, learning and passing information on. Respect those who give advice and correct other members and respect new members trying to answer questions.
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