That's easy. Just buy her stuff (alternatively, give her your creditcard, less hassle)
.. and give her wine and/or chocolate ... regurlarly ..
.. and don't forget to tell her how pretty she is...
.. and wash the dishes ...
.. and clean the house ...
.. and fix that damn cupboard she's been moaning about for the last 2 months....
.. and cook for her (NO braai is NOT cooking)
.. and take care of the kids for a change
.. and buy her the book "Fifty Shades of Grey" ... buy the trilogy while you're at it ....
.. book her a spa treatment (don't forget to include her mom and/or friends in the package)
IF you have any money left after the above, you MIGHT have a chance of getting more T's