A quick update:
P.subfusca: After witnessing the 1 insert, I left him in the females enclosure for 2 weeks or so. She eventually decided that she didn't like him much and I noticed her chasing the poor guy around, so took him out. He has since been passed on to scarab where I witnessed a great insert with scarabs female (subfusca that is, not frootbat.

) Think he left the male in with the female while away to the coast.
Should be interesting as I think the male is "light form" (Bought him as a mature male and the previous owner didn't have much of a clue) and my female is "dark form" and scarabs is "light form". The light form female seemed much keener on the little guy, so maybe its a sign? She was about twice the size of him though (Hopefully scarab can post a pic or 2 when he gets back?)
My female (subfusca) is currently fattening up nicely, so still holding thumbs.
P.muticus: Fattened up nicely since eating the poor male. Still have a small glimmer of hope that he got an insert in. If not, I have a sub adult male that I received from Usumbara, so hopefully he matures soon.
H.gigas: Still fattening up. Stopped eating, so expecting a moult or a sac soon.
P.miranda: Received a male from Hendrik. The male was terrified of the female (Who was very interested), and kept on running away when put in her enclosure. Eventually put her enclosure inside a huge tank with the male and left him there for about a week. He made himself a little home in the top corner of the enclosure and he made at least 2 sperm webs in the week in there, so hoping that he got some good inserts. No aggression showed/witnessed by the female at all.
P.pederseni: The male has matured a few weeks ago, so will be trying him tonight.
P.metallica: Male also matured a few weeks ago, so also giving him a go tonight. (Both male and female are on loan from another member so not my spiders)
P.ornata: Matured this last week, so will be trying him with my female in 2 weeks or so.