I see your concern, but kids are tough and they get over curtain issues, school is tough but we can't shield kids from every thing in life, they need to learn how to deal with disappointment and curtain feelings that come from being a child it is parents job to give the child the "ego" to deal with a**hole kids!
At the end of the day it is the parents who choose to be bad parents and shoot there kids dreams down or they know best and they know what there child is able to do.
I was not allowed to watch curtain movies or kids programs growing up, where all my friends wore aloud to watch movies and stuff like that, I was the odd one out most of the time, when they wore talking about the movies, but at the end of the day I knew the whole movie any way :laugh: !!
I use to get hectic night terrors :evil: :S
I was only allowed to get a snake until I turned 12, on my 12 birthday went and got my snake Guess who was the only one with snakes in my class room! ME!!!!

At the end of the day parents know best, and they love us, whether they said no to getting a spider!
You just move out and buy your self one then!